5 Women Who Want Sex More Than Their Male Partners Share Their Stories
Read below Stories From Women Who Want More Sex
1. “I’m learning to accept that I am just going to have to be the aggressor”
My husband works 10 hour shifts, 6 days a week. We are both tired, stressed, sore, and overworked by the end of the day. But after our daughter has gone to bed, I like to set aside everything and be intimate with my husband. Unfortunately, he doesn’t have the same ideas. He’s too tired, or too sore, or just “not in the mood.” We are a recently married couple, in our late 20’s. We should still have a decent sexual drive. It’s frustrating to me that he isn’t on the same page as me when it comes to sex.
It’s the main argument in our marriage. I can’t understand how six or seven days can go by, and sex just never happens. No woman wants to always take the initiative … If I didn’t speak up, I’m sure a month could just pass by without any intimacy at all. I would be happiest with intimate contact every day of the week, but I’ve tried to compromise to every other day. But even that doesn’t occur without a reminder. I’m learning to accept that I am just going to have to be the aggressor 95 percent of the time.
2. “He bought me a vibrator so I would be happy and leave him alone”
[I] have had a difference in desire from my husband for about the last 11 years or more. We have sex a couple of times a year and sometimes it might be twice a week for a week and then nothing for months at a time. I have tried making his favorite meals, doing a week’s worth of really nice things to get him in a happy state of mind, wearing sexy clothes and lingerie — it doesn’t work. I have no idea what turns him on. My husband doesn’t respond to pressure, hates talking about it and it is a cause of stress on our marriage. He bought me a vibrator so I would be happy and leave him alone. It doesn’t fill the need, although sometimes I just enjoy the pleasure without the hassle and have to fantasize that my husband enjoys pleasing me.
He wouldn’t have sex while I was pregnant with each of our children. Talk about a long nine plus months. It was well over a year if no sex with our last child. Now that we have completed my our family I don’t know if we will ever have sex again. He says his work is done … We are completely happy otherwise. In total we have been together 20 years and married almost 11. We are each others’ best friend just not compatible lovers.
3. “I’m beginning to think that I will never find a partner whose sex drive is equal to mine”
I’m a 65-year-old woman who has been divorced since 1991. Since that time, I have been in approximately six serious relationships. In every one of them, my sex drive was higher than my partner’s. Now I’m running into the problem that even if my partner is interested in having sex at all (much less as often as I would prefer), he has ED. I’m beginning to think that I will never find a partner whose sex drive is equal to mine. I’m very open minded and am interested in sharing a variety of experiences with my partner, not just intercourse. I do understand that sex isn’t everything in a relationship, but it is very discouraging if sex IS important to you and you and your partner just aren’t on the same wavelength in that area.
4. “By the time I’m 35, I may never have sex again”
I’ve been married 5 years to a man that’s 12 years older than me (he’s 40, I’m 28) and sex has nearly always been an issue … At first I thought it was my orgasm issues, then I thought it was his anti-anxiety meds, but he’s been off those for over a year and there’s been no change. I’m not sure how quickly we got here, but for at least the past few years I’m lucky to get lucky twice a month. And that’s with begging. BEGGING. My husband has nearly no interest, does not notice if I’m naked, states he doesn’t ever think about sex, refuses to see this as a legitimate problem, and if I’m to try to get him there, there is a laundry list of factors that have to be aligned for him: tired? work stress? comfy bedding? smelly breath? kids distracted?
There is no pornography issue, he’s only had three sexual partners in his life, he’s fantastic at sex, says I’m very satisfying — but he only needs to be satisfied once a month. Even when we were separated for 6 weeks (job move) and reunited, I had to ask for it. But he was tired … So I do my best to trust in a higher power and purpose and not feel despair at the very real thought that by the time I’m 35, I may never have sex again.
5. “I am not unhappy with my marriage just frustrated that I do not get any sex”
I am turning 60 this year and yes I would love to have sex every day. It seems the husband is past his prime and rather watch TV no matter what I do to entice him. My sex drive has always been high and I have enjoyed a relationship or two where my partner could match that drive … I am not unhappy with my marriage just frustrated that I do not get any sex and have to reach for the handy vibrator instead of having the real thing.
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